The First Steps to Winning Your Ex Girlfriend Back
So, you have broken up with your girlfriend and now you are trying to win her back. Take it from a girl; you need to give her some space! A girl needs time to chill out, relax, find her feet and have a good old moan with her girlfriends before she can even think about taking you back so make sure that you give her a couple of weeks to calm down before you make any moves.
Although you are trying to keep your distance from your ex, it is always a good idea to send her a few friendly text messages to make sure that she knows that you are still interested. This applies no matter how the two of you broke up and without this; she may think that you do not care and that she should move on.
When you have given your ex girlfriend a little time to get over the shock of the two of you breaking up, it’s time to meet for time to talk. This is best done on neutral ground so do not meet up at your home or hers but try to meet for lunch at her favorite café or suchlike. A picnic is a great idea for a romantic date but these may be risky and far too presumptuous so try to avoid this for just now.
It is over this lunch date that you should make your pitch so to speak, but whatever you do, try not to argue, no matter what she is saying and also try to listen to what she is saying in return.
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respect the fact that she has a bf right now. she knows u like her and u are waiting for her. let her make the next move
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Just tell her that you want her back and ask her to seriously consider leaving her bf for you. That is really all you can do. just wait and see what happens
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Winning my ex-girlfriend back. She has a boyfriend. First few steps have been taken, now topics like sex …?
Are coming up.
( Too long, didn’t read version below at the bottom )
Hey. My ex-girlfriend (Now one of my best friends) has been with her boyfriend now for a few months. It started off as some friends with benefits type thing without sex, or anything. Just kissing. Then it became a relationship.
She says she’s stuck between him and me. We were in love, really in love, but I won’t talk too much about the break up, except that we ended it too early. She says there are feelings there, and a bond that keeps her close to me that she can’t explain. I feel the same thing ( Except I know what the bond is. )
I’ve taken the first few steps to winning her back. We’ve flirted for about a week now, and these past two days, we’ve been playing a very High-school esque ‘questions’ game. What I got out of it : If it wasn’t for her boyfriend, she says she would definetely go for a relationship ( with me ), and would sleep with me ( Not what I’m looking for mainly ) all the ‘perks’ included. The thing is, she does have feelings for him.
They have had problems in the past. One being she would not do anything with him, because she knew I didn’t/don’t trust him. ( I don’t know why I told her I did once, what an idiot move ) The point is; I know she’s leaving the door open enough to allow me to win her back. The thing is, now that we’ve flirted ( Unfortunately, mostly over msn, though a good amount in person too ), and openly talked about sleeping together and our feelings, I’m not quite sure what my next move should be.
I’ll be with her all day Sunday, as she’s helping me unpack in the new home. There will be several opportunities for us to talk, do ’something’, and stuff. She’s stated she doesn’t want to be a cheater, and I don’t want her to be one either. I just want her to know her own feelings that she has for me, opening the door wide enough for her to leave him, or to consider it alot more.
And if it matters, she’s not getting any sex with him.
So here is my question.
What should my next move be?
( TL;DR version = Want my ex-girlfriend back but she’s taken. She’s leaving the door open for me, and has stated she has some feelings for me. We’ve flirted for a while, wondering what my next move should be. )