Get Back Your Ex (www.makeupmistake.com) With The Opening Move
June 4, 2010 | Leave a Comment
http://www.makeupmistake.com Tells you how to make The Opening Move to get back your ex, before you make a big mistake!
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Does this really help you get back with your ex?
March 17, 2010 | 1 Comment
You know how when you look up "How to get back with your ex gf/bf" and when you click on a link, practically all of them say;
*Avoid them, or keep a distance
*Have MINIMAL conversations with them, make it seem like you don’t like talking with them
*Look like you’re having fun without him/her
Do these techniques really work in order to get your ex back? I’m scared my ex will think I’m better off without him and move on.
So my question is, for people who’ve done this- did it really work? And for those who didn’t work out, did your ex seem like you moved on completely and moved on to?
I’ve found that getting back with your ex is a bad idea. You broke up for a reason and that reason will eventually come back again. Your mind plays tricks on you after a break up, you tend to only remember the good times. But getting back together again will be a quick reminder, because people tend to not change.
But no, those mind games don’t work. Really time is the best way to get back together again. Once the initial hatred passes, it becomes possible. But when I got back together with my ex, the only thing we had in common was sex. Outside of that, it was awful and it ended again shortly after the reconciliation.
How do you get back an ex boyfriend who wont talk to you?
February 25, 2010 | 14 Comments
I want us to talk and try and rekindle things. i want my ex back
how can i do this.
Hey there,
If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you need to be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s important.
7 Tips To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down on your own and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t harass yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can effect.
2. Whichever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable . You would be amazed at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, especially if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you have to do this.
4. You might learn later that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family issues . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail just what you have found.
5. If your mistakes originated in you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be beneficial.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral due to the fact that then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.
For an article about a book that helped me and many others to get back with their ex, press on the link below:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic–of-making-up
All the best!
Hi, Is there any stories about getting back with an Ex Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
February 6, 2010 | 3 Comments
Hi, is ther any good stories about getting back with your ex, how is it now, how was it when u broke up , who broke up with who, and how did you guys get back together? Thank you
No rudeness please
Many years ago I broke up with my girlfriend. At first, she was very upset. But later, instead of trying to get me back, she acted as though she was fine with my decision.
I knew she was probably open to getting back together, but she totally backed off from trying to contact me or anything like that.
Eventually, after a month or so apart, she initiated contact with me again. Not to get back together, just a friendly phone call asking me if I’d like to get together for a movie. I accepted and to make a long story short… we got back together.
Later in life I thought about why this worked. The bottom line is that she did everything right to get me back.
- She never acted desperate or needy
- She gave me plenty of space
- She initiated contact again in a very casual, confident way
There is definitely a lesson to be learned here for anyone trying to win back an ex. This approach worked on me like a charm. A lot of the "get your ex back" type information out there talks about this. It wouldn’t work in every situation, but it definitely is a solid strategy.
I listed a source below that talks about this more…
Would you try to win your back your ex is it a pointless effort?
October 24, 2009 | 1 Comment
I’m so lonely. I want her to like me, but she’s with some dude. I always get dumped.
Hey there’
It’s not a pointless effort.
If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you must be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. All of us make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s significant.
7 Tips To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down bother yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can influence.
2. Whichever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable . You would be astonished at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, particularly if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you have to do this.
4. You might discover that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family matters . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail just what you have found.
5. If your mistakes arose from you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be beneficial.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral because then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.
For an article about a book that helped me and many others to get back with their ex, press on the link below:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic–of-making-up
All the best!
